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I am sick of men (or boys) accusing me of being materialistic when all I want is a stable with a stable and healthy income.
Imagining our joint income totals $6000 (equally split) when we are about to get married, let’s just think about how expensive being a married couple is without children. Getting money got a BTO downpayment needs money. Even ordering furniture from Taobao needs money.
Let’s be practical – it is not a sin to want to wait and save money before committing to marriage. It feels weird that as a girl, I want to wait at least 4 years before I am married and have kids and my guy enthusiastically wanna ROM now.
If you don’t have a stable income, go get a fling or something. I am not someone who shits without having a roll of TP ready. It’s not my cup of coffee.