My boyfriend and I has been together for more than half a year and he claims to be a romantic. That seemed to be the case in the first six months yet now it’s Valentine’s Day, he chose to just bring me to a shop and asked me to pick whatever I want and paid for it.
No fancy meal nor flowers either (although I don’t actually need that). These are opposed to him going out of the way to pull connections to get a table at a fully booked restaurant for my birthday just because I wanted to try, spent weeks searching for the present etc. I feel cheap and unappreciated that he thinks that I don’t require any effort anymore );