I’m with my bf for more than 6 years. He recently changed his job and I’m quite annoyed with his colleagues at his new workplace.
There was this incident that happened a few weeks ago where his boss and colleagues peeped at his phone. And just so happened that I replied him and my notification appeared and his colleagues started teasing him. Because of that, he muted the notifications.
Just a few days ago, I called him to check if he was alright because he didn’t reply me. Over the background, I could hear his colleagues teasing him.
Then today, he texted saying that he is watching a movie with his colleagues so he wouldn’t reply me. I’m thinking if he is ashamed of me as his gf? Or? And I’m also getting skeptical of replying him whenever his colleagues are around and it bothers me a lot that he takes their jokes so seriously.
I feel as though like I’m in an underground relationship. I don’t know how to approach this matter without hurting the relationship with his colleagues.