Hi a year 3 lad here. In an ordinary course in NUS. Just had to put it out here because of how superficial ladies seems to be, as far as they claim not to and even saint like.
Not boasting in any way, just to provide a context. Good looking by market standards did some modelling for TV/commercial ads. I do regular volunteering work (was from a humble background where every help along the way really ease my family in many ways, which I hope to do as much as I can in return ) Stellar academic records and on track for a good career.
Started my own side business so I’m pretty much set for an ordinary life. Here’s the deal, was dating a nice girl for a couple of years. She was the nicest lady, abeit overly insecured over her appearance which honestly didn’t seem to affect me in any way(she had the most gorgeous eyes I’ve seen, pretty sure I fell for them on sight) .
Long story short, broke up with me because she claimed she couldn’t take the constant girls tryna slide in my dms and texts and all that insecurity not knowing when she’ll lose me (like wt*). Gave my best shots multiple times to ease her. My family loves her and I loved her character and that was as much as it mattered to me.
6 months down. Countless girls from all sorts of connections, modules, camps, programs have attempted to initiate smth with me. Believe me when I say I go out on these dates on a fresh sheet in my mind. Those conversations never fail to come to either appearance, ig likes, money. And at some point you realise you’re just another trophy for them.
To those couples in a happy relationship, I envy you and applaud your perseverance in your commitment. To those still looking, nice guys do finish last. You just gotta sieve through the f**bois. To nice girls looking for their partner in life. Please keep in mind looks and money are things that don’t last through the years, a little heart and kindness do. And ps this ig influencer thing is one of those dumbest ideologies ppl feed into.